One of the criticisms I’ve seen mentioned of personal trainers, online trainers or anything that might fall in between is the idea of “selling fish vs teaching someone how to fish”. That’s a cliche way of saying, telling someone what to do instead of teaching them how to do it themselves, so to speak.
I personally don’t think it’s necessarily an either/or case however.
While without clients I’d be out of business, the goal is still to hopefully impart some degree of knowledge into a client over time. Enough so that should they decide to, they can take over the reigns on their own, and continue to be successful in their fitness/physique endeavors. For some, the decision to go solo comes sooner and for others, who simply like not having to do any of the thinking themselves and enjoy the specific training and nutritional guidance, accountability, etc., it comes much later. (Note: I do however think competitors more often than not should have a coach/trainer for multiple reasons) It’s something that will vary from person to person. Take accounting - how many people do their own taxes? Some do, and that’s fine. Others, they simply don’t want to learn or be bothered and just want an established expert to handle it for them. And that’s fine too.
I received a really nice email from a former client of mine which is a testament to the fact that there’s learning (provided you’re paying attention) that comes with training with a professional. And that knowledge is something they can take with them, enabling them to stay in charge of their body, even help others with less knowledge and understanding.
Hi Erik! I just wanted to write you a note to thank you.
I wanted to thank you for the type of training and nutritional plan that you provided for me. I did not realize the impact it would have on my life. I think that the leanbodiesfitness.com forum also played a large role. Between your plan and your forum, I was able to educate myself regarding nutrition and training. I learned what is truly healthy nutritionally and learned that my body is more capable physically than I ever thought it was. Even though it has been a year since I worked with you, I still follow your nutritional plan and train similarly to the programs you designed for me.
Today is when I really realized how beneficial the program and learning experience was for me. I am a therapist for adolescents. Many of them have told me that they struggle with eating disorders, primarily anorexia/bulimia. Because I worked with you, I am able to give them sound nutritional advice and explain to them why they need to eat. So far, three of my clients have started eating three meals a day, which is very helpful for them considering they were starving themselves and then binging. I am able to explain in a logical way how much they need to eat and why. Sometimes clients want two different body types. I am able to help them see their genetic potential and not what society has deemed attractive.
My experience of working with you was a great one. It has allowed me to help those friends and family around me make healthier choices and just understand their bodies and nutrition in a healthier light. However, helping me help my clients is beyond anything I would have imagined. So, basically, thanks for being such a knowledgeable and supportive trainer. You have helped more than just your clients. If you read this quote, know that you too are a ripple and your effects are really helping alot of people!
“Few will have the greatness to bend history; but each of us can work to change a small portion of events, and in the total of all those acts will be written the history of this generation … it is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is thus shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring, those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.” — Robert F. Kennedy
Thanks again,