Emotional Eating
Often times some of the issues people face are related to certain emotional triggers that lead to eating. These slip ups can really put a damper on a person's motivation. There's just so much self- torture and guilt that comes with the slip up. A few things I want to say about this: First, it's not that big a deal. Seriously, get over it. The last thing you should be doing is trying to compensate for a mistake by either cutting out meals or doing more exercise. Don't do it. All you're doing is reinforcing bad habits. Simply pick yourself back up, get back on the horse, and don't look back. Even once. Move on. Secondly, caving in and having a cookie isn't the end of the world. Sure, it wasn't on your plan, but you slipped up. It's one cookie. What happens with some people is that they then say 'Well, I messed up. I might as well go hog wild and make it really count'. Next thing you know that one cookie turned into a whole bag of cookies. Now you've got a problem. The one cookie? No big deal. The whole bag? Yes, that's a big deal. And finally, if you're one of these people, there's a pattern here that needs to be broken. The whole 'get stressed, get angry, get sad, eat' equation needs to be adjusted. This is a habit. So you need to recognize what habits you have, and start to try to find new, and more beneficial behavioral responses to these emotional triggers. How do you get rid of a habit? Replace it with another one. Tough at first, but eventually this new habit will replace the old one. Change the habit and the associated habits MUST change too. Read that again. Here's to a week of great progress. Erik
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April 24th, 2007 at 12:51 pm
So true. Love the article. Makes me wonder why this is so difficult for some.
April 25th, 2007 at 8:19 am
Good read. Any suggestions for ‘replacement’ habits?
May 11th, 2007 at 8:22 pm
Loved reading this. Thanks, Erik.